Hello,
Gentle Readers. While
I've enjoyed my blogging vacation, on the whole, I'm starting feel like I to get back in the groove. And what better way than to look back at a very special day in
the life of Tom Wild Rose...the Getting-to-Know-You/Welcome Springtime Tea at Prairie Cottage! That's right--the long-promised post is finally...um...posted. Better late than never, wot? ;-) I've included some of my favorite pix from the event, plus a few I "borrowed" from Kellie's and Tasha's Google albums and blogs (if the pic has me in it, it's one of theirs). I may set up my own album eventually, but for now, here are the ones I liked best (my new icon--shown at left--is also from the Tea).
Enjoy....
Saturday,
May 19th,
2012
It
all started in February, really. The older I get, the more I find I
prefer sunshine, green growing things and cheery flowers to mud, snow
and ice. I often wish I'd been born in May, as it's generally such a
beautiful month. Most of the trees are leafed out, the fields and
lawns are green, flowers are blooming, birds are singing—ahh! A
foretaste of Heaven.
Kellie & Tasha reveling in the sunshine |
So
this year I decided to have a special tea party with some special
friends on the last Saturday of May, to celebrate the arrival of
Spring after a bitter Winter. The “special friends” in this case
being two young ladies God has brought into my life over the past
year or so—namely, Kellie and Tasha. Reading their blogs has been
such a blessing; I had pretty much despaired of ever finding any
other young ladies of my own generation who sewed their own clothes,
baked and cooked and enjoyed tinkering with recipes, and other such
crafty what-nots. But God has a way of bringing you just what you
need right before you make a nice little crater at the bottom of your
Pit of Despair. As I have kept in contact with Kellie and Tasha, it's
been amazing—and a bit uncanny—how much we have in common. To
borrow a phrase from Anne Shirley, we three are truly “kindred
spirits,” and I pray that God will help me to be a good friend to
these delightful lassies and somehow be as much of a blessing to them
as they have been to me.
Our Three Hats--Two of a kind and "the other one" |
It's
been a long time since I hosted a tea party—I think the last one
was for my Sweet 16th
birthday party...eleven years ago—and even longer since I attended
one. Far too long. On the whole, I'm not one for a lot of
frilly-girlie-froufrou, but I do
like to doll up now and then, and there's just something so special
and romantic about dressing up, drinking tea and eating special foods
with good friends.
As
it turned out, Tasha had a scheduling conflict on the 26th,
so we set the date for the tea back a week to the 19th
instead. Then I set about baking lovely goodies for us to enjoy:
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Scottish Shortbread (which I'd never made before)
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Scones (which I'd only made once or twice in my life)
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Oatmeal-chocolate-chip cookies (recipe coming soon!)
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Mock Devonshire Cream (why it's “mock” I have no idea)
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Homemade raspberry jam from our neighbor, Mrs. H, and store-bought
blackberry, for variety
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Fresh fruit
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Nut cups with dried cherries, cranberries and raisins amongst the
nuts, and a little square of chocolate mint for each of us
Due
to an unfortunate mix-up, a family from church ended up having their
open house (to welcome their son back from Afghanistan) the same day
as the tea party, so Mom and Peter went to that, leaving me with the
whole house to myself, mwahaha. I had barely finished pinning up my
hair, when the phone rang. It was Kellie, announcing that she and
Tasha were on our road, and which one was my house? I told her it was
“the one with the big trees in front,” and they arrived a moment
later. When the girls stepped out of the suburban/truck, it was as if
the pictures from their Project DOTT had come to life. Both wore
their fashionable muslin-covered hats—daintily embellished with
ribbon bands and a few artificial flowers—and delightful '50s-style
frocks trimmed tastefully with lace. After inviting them in, I
excused myself to put on my shoes and jewelry as quickly as possible,
then proceeded to welcome them by stumbling over the name of my own
house. :-P
Now,
it must be mentioned that I had been worried about the dreaded
“awkward silence” that inevitably happens when shy folk meet. I'm
not exactly the most outgoing person in the world, and when I'm with
other shy people, I tend to pick up on their shyness, and it's hard
to suck it up and do more than fidget like a little kid at a lecture
and stare stupidly at the floor, feeling I ought to say something,
but being too afraid to break the ice. And consequently getting knots
in my stomach no sailor ever learned.
However,
I had prayed over and over that God would help me be a good hostess
and help the girls feel at home and relaxed and have a good time. And
God heard my prayer, because while that dreaded silence did come
right at first, Kellie helped lighten it by vocalizing it (“The
Awkward Silence!”), followed by my assurances that “I don't
bite—honest!”
*Laughter*
Ahh!
The ice was broken.
We
decided we weren't quite hungry enough for tea just yet, and it was
such a lovely day that Kellie suggested a photo-shoot. So, after
grabbing my rather ghetto-looking hat (suddenly realizing that
millinery isn't my strong suit) and Mister Camera, off we girls went
to shoot each other and anything else that struck our fancy. :-P I
gave them a bit of a tour of the yard, pointing out the flower-beds
and what-not (and feeling like a rather amateurish tour-guide), and
gathered some flowers for the table. The little vase—found at the
thrift store I volunteer at—was perfect for the setting, and the
flowers even matched the colors in our dresses! Fresh green and
brilliant red for Kellie's cheery frock, pink-and-white for Tasha's
gingham (although the flowers were more peachy, and Tasha's dress was
more of a pale mauve), and purple for mine. Hee!
The
girls were fascinated with our “gate-that's-not-a-gate” in the
West lawn, so we took several pictures there. It really is a nice
setting; it just surprised me that they'd pick that over all the
lovely trees in our yard. But it was fun, and the weather was
perfect—not too hot, with a light breeze to keep the air from
feeling stale; a few hazy clouds floating above us in a brilliant
blue sky, sunshine, birdsong—and of course all that green of grass
and tree, and the pretty flowers. Kellie described it best when she
said it was “a golden day.” :-)
LOL! |
Next
we moved on to the front yard to take some pictures under the trees, which I call "The Guardians."
Some turned out nicely; some were a bit silly, a few are destined to
become family classics...and some were just plain goofy. :-P For
every nice shot, there was much laughter in between, especially when
we found out how hard it is to blow on a dandelion and pose for a
picture at the same time. That was another surprise for me—the
girls were absolutely taken with our dandelions. I grew up hating
them as invasive weeds, so it never occurred to me that some people
might actually like them. Learn something new every day, wot? ;-) I
told them they were welcome to all our dandelions, but no one could
think of a good way to transport them all the way up Northish, so we
settled for picking them for our photoshoot.
Whatever ice might have
remained from our initial meeting melted away amid laughter, good
clean fun...and a few silly shenanigans.
Couldn't Resist! |
I suppose it was rather a
silly thing to do to someone I'd just met, but Tasha was a good sport
about it. And to be fair, I let her do it back to me. :-P
Quotes
of the day:
TASHA:
Did you get me chewing my lip??
KELLIE:
Well, if you're going
to chew on your lip, I'm sure to get a picture of it.
TASHA:
But it tastes so good!
TASHA:
That cream ruffle on your dress makes me happy, Kellie.
Having
laughed ourselves sore in the face (which necessitated our quoting
the Tour Guide Barbie bit from Toy
Story 2),
we went back inside to partake of all the goodies I'd been making for
the past week.
The
table was laid with a lace tablecloth that we've had as long as I can
remember, backed with a piece of lovely blue linen-look fabric for
color. We used Grandma Burcham's blue-flowered china—which I
believe was a wedding gift to her back in the '40s—and
Great-great-great-grandmother McSpadden's pitcher (100 years old in
1975) for the milk. For our tea, the girls each got to choose a cup
and saucer from among my great-grandmother's teacups. I used the one
I got as a party favor at my friend Lydia's 13th birthday
party...fourteen years ago.
I
wish we'd gotten a picture of the table with all the lovely food and
china on it, especially the beautiful fruit platter Mom put
together—chunks of watermelon and cantaloupe, and clusters of
grapes, divided by “stripes” of sliced pineapple spears and fresh
strawberries—but we were enjoying the food and one another's
company too much to bother with taking pictures.
Burcham china, McSpadden Pitcher...and CUCUMBER SANDWICHES! |
I'm
happy to report that my culinary efforts were a complete success. The
girls loved the scones in particular, especially with the yummy
Devonshire cream! But for me, the crowning praise was Tasha's
declaration that my first attempt at shortbread “tastes like
Walker's”—which I got in my Christmas stocking last year and
loved. High praise indeed. And neither of the girls even suspecting
that the lovely baked goods they were happily nibbling on were
gluten-free! I meant to tell them, as it would have been fun to see
their reactions, but the opportunity never came up. There were plenty
of other things to discuss, however, besides the composition of the
menu. Tasha had us in stitches with her tales of practical jokes
played by and on her, and I must say that after that afternoon, my
childhood seemed quite tame and uneventful by comparison. :-P And
Kellie's recounting of the two ladies who (gaspshockhorror) couldn't
stand accents—especially Australian—is classic! Ooh-hah! I only
wish I had your bravery, Kellie-lass. ;-)
Mr. Licorice and his adoring audience |
The
Tea was only supposed to be from two to four p.m., but when we'd
eaten our fill and looked at the clock, it was after five! Hee. So
concluded our time together with a quick tour of the work building
where we have all Peter's transfer equipment, Mom's music, my jewelry
and Mom's and my sewing. I keep forgetting what a blessing that
building is until viewed from the eyes of others. It really is handy,
as it's almost the same size as our house, which keeps Prairie
Cottage from becoming cluttered.
The
girls started for home shortly after that, but not before Mister
Licorice came out to say hello-goodbye and demand of them to rub his
belly. And of course the girls were happy to oblige, much to the
purring delight of our “itty-bitty-kitty-witty.” :-P
Adorable Kellie |
Dainty Tasha |
All
in all, a perfect day, and one that will always be a high point (or
as Anne Shirley would put it, “an epoch”) in my life. While I
felt a bit awkward about dashing hither and thither to fetch the food
and wash a few dishes that hadn't been before the girls arrived, the
good time we spent together well outweighed all that.
Silly Tom! |
To top it all
off, they mentioned that “we should do this more often,” and
eagerly agreed to make it an annual event. I'm looking forward to it
with great pleasure. :-)
Tom & Kellie |
Tom & Tasha |
The Three Lassies |
Thanks
again, Kellie and Tasha, for sharing a very special day with me!
I absolutely loved reading this post. Well worth the wait. So many wonderful memories, and so much fun!! That was the most wonderful tea party I've ever had the pleasure of attending. It was certainly the most delicious - I'm getting hungry just thinking about all of those lovely eatables! ;)
ReplyDeleteI guess I've always loved dandelions - they're so beautiful and yellow, and so much fun to blow on when they've gone to seed. They have a magical quality all their own that I love.
We should absolutely make this an annual event! So much fun! =)
Love and blessings,
~Tasha~
P.S. You'll be happy to know that I watched my first classic Doctor Who episode the other night. "Robot" with Tom Baker. And I LOVED it!! He's quite brilliant as the Doctor=)
Hurrah! Welcome to Classic Doctor Who, Dahling! Now when I talk about The Doctor, you'll know *Who* I mean. (Yeah, yeah, bad pun. :-P) Tom Baker is our Doctor round hereabouts, as he blends the funny "crusty old grandfather" of One (William Hartnell) with the more kindly father/uncle-image of Three (Jon Pertwee), adding a quirky braininess all his own. Definitely the best of the original series. /GUSH
Delete~"TWR"~
*grin* I really love Tom Baker's Doctor, especially the quirky braininess;) The 9th Doctor reminds me of Tom Baker a lot, actually. Similar facial expressions and quirkiness.
DeleteMy goal is to watch at least one episode from each regeneration's era. So far I've seen One, Two, and Four.
Besides, I love classic sci-fi;D
This looks like a lovely tea party! Would you believe that I've actually never been to or had a tea party in my entire life? One of these days I'll have to find a group of lovely ladies who share my passion for tea, vintage crockery, and pretty dresses.(;
ReplyDeletebeautiful photos as well! I love the dandelion ones.(:
~Vicki
deckedoutinruffles.blogspot.com
Welcome to The Rambling Rose, Vicki! But dear me! Never attended a tea party, ever? How sad. :-( There must be someone near you who loves the finer things in life.
DeleteGod bless and help you find them soon!
~"TWR"~
Fabulous post, dear! It was so much fun to relive this, and I love the way you captured those little moments that I'd forgotten - the quotes, the ice breaking, the planning, the way the flowers matched our dresses.
ReplyDeleteI'm already looking forward to the next annual Spring High Tea - it'll be something to help us get through this winter coming up. :smile:
Your friendship is such a blessing!
Hugs,
--Kellie
Thank you, m'dear; it was fun to write, too, as it took me back to the fun we all had that day.
DeleteYes! Thoughts of our next Springtime Tea will definitely be a good incentive to survive the Winter (but not too soon, please).
Ditto, Dahling--muchly!! :-D
~"TWR"~